the group of friends I play games with now has included three girls- the GMs girlfriend, who got to do whatever she wanted (which was mostly to text message instead of paying anything resembling attention to the game) the renfaire girl (who was used to being the only girl the guys had ever seen, and tried to walk all over us, a group of guys who had just put up with the GMs girlfriend for years-- that did not go well for her. I was the first one to kill her character, but I wasn't the last)
And now my fiance is part of the group- although most of the guys consider her 'one of the guys' so they swear and tell dirty jokes like she's not there. I figure you're the type of gamer girl like my fiance, Zone, one who actually fits into the group, rather than expecting something for deigning to grace us with your presence.
-kv