Well, perhaps you have an endless well of deep and personal relatonships to draw friends from like so much water thats all arround us.
personally, I live in a world with too few true friends. I have perhaps one or at most two buddies that would really qualify as 'friends' in that sence of the world, and even they aren't always available for a game.
inorder to pull a group together, at least for me; requires oodles of compramize. I have to let the elf pozer play an elf, and I have to let him have a magic bow. I have to make sure that certan people don't die, because if they do, they'll leave, and take the guy playing the healer with them. I have to make sure to fudge dice aghinst the people playing underpowerd PC's, so they can keep up with the munchkin with the minigun (who I fudge things aghinst, to make it hard enoug to actually be fun)
*shrug*
it's a lot of work and perhaps why I don't game as much as I'd like.
-RuskiFace the Pirate